Couples Therapy

“We are all difficult but we want easy.”
Stan Tatkin.

Relationship Counselling

Relationships go through rough patches. When the most important person in our life isn’t tuning into us, that can make us feel deeply ungrounded and unhappy.

In my work with couples, I help you both re-find safety and support, through your connection. There is a unique strength and resilience in every couple dynamic. Even in times of couple distress, I can support you to touch into that. Then together we can face the tough stuff, the conflict cycles and damaging dialogues, the unspoken pain, and move from rupture to repair.

I am interested in the neurobiology of relating, what happens in the energetic patterning between couples that magnetises us into the same patterns. It is a great privilege to sit close to couples grappling with loving.

Love is a powerful force, and loving another brings up everything that stands in the way of our loving. Inside the compression, in the heat and rapid-fire responses, the swift ricochets of feelings, are chances for a miraculous mending of our hearts. Our deepest longing is to connect, and our bodies are made for bonding. The subtle movements of your energy, your nervous system responses, are the keys to your relationship dynamic.